Caity Reilly

Somatic Practitioner | Trauma Informed Educator + Bodyworker | Sex & Intimacy Counselor for Couples + Individuals | Exploring What Makes Us Human


Feb
11
to Feb 12

Touched by Love: Erotic Massage Immersion for Couples ~ Valentine's Weekend Event <3

  • San Francisco, CA 94121 USA (map)
  • Google Calendar ICS

Touched by Love is a deep dive for couples into the art of er*tic massage and intentional s*xual practice.

During the experience you’ll learn:

  • The pillars of “non-goal oriented”, Tantric and intentional s*xual practice

  • Receive the s*x education and er*tic anatomy lesson you’ve always wanted, so you can pleasure your partner inside and out

  • Discover the difference between cl*max and *rgasms, including the wide range of *rgasms available to you

  • Experience the wide range of “Elemental Touch” and how to weave this in to an incredible bodywork session for your partner

  • Tips for giving an amazing massage and ways to help your partner drop into their bodies deeply

  • How to work with the pelvic floor for healing, awakening and pleasure

  • Understanding how the nervous system influences our capacity for connection, intimacy and accessing expanded states

And more!

This workshop is for couples of all orientations and relationship configurations who:

  • Are interested in expanding their ert*ic skills set and ways of offering touch

  • Are curious about what a “non-goal oriented approach” to s*xuality can look and feel like

  • Have been wanting to dive into er*tic massage and intentional s*xual practice

  • Are looking for new ways to connect physically, emotionally and energetically

  • Want an intentional, guided experience into deeper desire, expression and intimacy together

  • Want a really rad, sexy and intimate Valentine’s Day weekend date

To register please fill out this form: https://forms.gle/Te9hKPuktfoSQx5s5
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Location to be announced closer to the date: the event will either take place in SF or the East Bay
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Schedule + Flow of the Event: will be schedule to be announced closer to the event date

What we will cover during our 2 days together:

  • Orientation with the Group

  • Opening Circle Ceremony

  • Philosophy + Foundations of Er*tic Massage + Non-Goal Oriented Practice

  • Introduction to Intentional Er*tic Practice

  • Experience: Touch through the Elements

  • Connection Ceremony for Couples

  • Integration + Closing

  • Anatomy of Arousal for the Female + Male Body

  • Climax vs. *rgasm - Expanding our Pleasure Possibilities

  • Ways of Touch for Accessing Full Body Pleasure

  • The Secret Ingredient of Devotion

  • The Art of Giving + Receiving

  • Strokes + Pelvic Floor Massage Demo + Q&A

  • Ceremonial Couples Massages!

  • Delicious Closing Ceremony + Integration
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    Logistics:
    - Before February 1st: $425 (tix for 1 couple/2ppl max)

- February 2-10th: $500 (tix for 1 couple/2ppl max)

- Discounts offered for couples registering together (4 or more people) and thrupples/polycules

- Tickets are non-refundable except in the case of extenuating circumstances or due to Covid - please see Covid policy below

- Immersion is limited to 10 couples: please see notes and Covid policy below

- The workshop will take place in a beautiful private home in the Berkeley hills - address provided after registering

- Light snacks and tea, ceremony supplies, as well as, a comfortable trifold mat will be provided for use during the immersion.

- Couples are responsible for bringing their own pillows, sheets and blankets to make their nests, as well as, your choice of “non-scented” body oil and lube.

You’re also encouraged to bring a water bottle, tea mug with lid, layers (think bathrobe), comfortable clothes that make you feel sexy and you can move/sit comfortably in, and a pillow/blackjack or whatever else you may need to sit comfortably on the floor and mats

To register please fill out this form: https://forms.gle/Te9hKPuktfoSQx5s5
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Things to note:

- We will be discussing and learning about both male and female anatomy and arousal. If you’re uncomfortable being in the space with folks of different gender identities or sexual orientations than you this may not be the event for you. Please reach out to Caity at serpentandrosetantra@gmail.com with your questions or concerns.

- You must come with a partner who you already have an established relationship with - no solo registrations or requests to be paired with a partner.

- Couples of more than 2 people (thrupples, pods, polycules, etc) are welcome to join! Ticket pricing and registration is for 2 people only however we can make a special ticket and registration price for your group. Please reach out to Caity at serpentandrosetantra@gmail.com to register.

- Please note while their will be nudity in the space, as well as, other people’s range of er*tic expression this is not a play space. The boundaries of the space will be limited to “second base” play (hands only). Please respect the boundaries of the space and people’s various relational boundaries and experiences with group settings.
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Covid Policy: may be changed and finalized closer to the event

- Vaccination and boosters are recommended, however they are not currently required. Please email a picture of your vaccine card to serpentandrosetantra@gmail.com

- Rapid Antigen tests required at the door both Saturday and Sunday.

- You can bring your own antigen test kit (preferred) or test kits will be available for purchase at the door (1 kit with two tests = $30 - price might be lower or higher depending on supplier)

- Participants will agree to reduce risk and wear a mask the week prior to the event.

- If you feel sick, have any symptoms and/or are exposed to CV the week prior to the event please reach out to the organizer. You’ll be fully refunded or have the option to transfer your ticket to another couple or event (your choice.

- If you wind up testing positive for Covid 24-48hrs after the event you agree to tell the organizer so that she can alert other participants of potential exposure.
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To register please fill out this form: https://forms.gle/Te9hKPuktfoSQx5s5

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Jan
12
5:00 PM17:00

Mapping Your Wild Terrain: Vaginal & Pelvic Bowl Mapping Workshop for Women, Femmes and AFAB Folks

Mapping Your Wild Terrain is a hands-on and hands-in experiential workshop where you will learn from the inside out a deeper understanding of your physical and sexual anatomy, as well as, tools for reproductive health and deeper self-care.
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You'll be given a space to explore your pelvis and turn-on just for you! So often our bodies are only touched in the context of medical assesment and for other's pleasure. This workshop is a space for you to have a deep experience of yourself, what lives in the root of your being and to learn tools for reclaiming your body, pelvis and sexuality as a space that is for you and by you!
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We will explore:
- Pelvic Bowl + Vagainal Mapping for an Deeper Connection to Self
- Self- Massage for Reproductive Health + Trauma Healing
- The Anatomy of Arousal in the Female Body
- Pleasure Points for More Sensation
- Reclaiming the Pelvis as a Place of Nourishment + Personal Pleasure
And much more!
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Who is this space for?
This space is open to p*ssy-owners of all sexual orientations. This container is for cis-women and people who have vulvas given that we will be focused on working with biologically female reproductive and sexual anatomy.

This will be a trauma informed space, however this work is not therapy and cannot address all individual traumas. Resources and support will be given as is appropriate for the container - if you have questions about if the container is right for you please email: serpentandrosetantra@gmail.com to set up a time to talk more.
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To Register: https://us02web.zoom.us/.../reg.../WN_IVCL7nldTtyjCLU_kJ6isA

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Class Logistics:
We will begin this class with lecture and Q&A and then a large portion of the workshop will be guided solo experience.

We will have plenty of time for integration and questions at the end of the class.

You will need a quiet space where you will be undisturbed for the duration of this workshop.

You will also need lubricant or body oil, a towel, layers, paper+ pen or markers and a hand mirror.
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I offer a limited number of sliding scale and scholarship spaces at each event. Priority goes to BIPOC folks, single mothers and s/w'ers. If you would like to apply for a spot please send me an email with a little blurb about your situation and we will register you directly

For questions please reach out to: serpentandrosetantra@gmail.com

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Jul
6
5:00 PM17:00

Reclaim Your Inner Terrain: an Erotic Embodiment Intensive for Women + Female-Bodied Folks

There are often so few spaces for us as women, female-bodied folks and survivors of trauma to have an experience of our own bodies, pelvises and our sexuality that is solely for us. 

We’re bombarded by images daily that sell us imprints of what our bodies “should” look like. We endlessly see female or feminine sexuality exploited and used to sell, reduce and commodify. 

We’re told our physical experiences, health challenges, emotional distress and  myriad of symptoms & sensations that show up in our bodies are a problem to be managed, pathologized, fixed and are best hidden away.  

We endlessly see the limiting dichotomies and paradigms that are placed upon us as women, feminine identified and female bodies folks. We can either be a mother or a wh*re, we can either be the good girl or the home wrecker, we can either be accomplished, driven and alone or at-home, docile and in-partnership.  We can be fully expressed as who we are or we can be safe. 

And then if we consciously explore femininity and “the feminine'' we're sold, age-old archetypal narratives that limit our expression to a pre-approved script (that is often taught to us by male teachers). We’re told to be 0rgasmic, pleasing, nurturing, essentially performing and we’re rarely given the space to occupy the nuance and complexity. 

But what if none of this was the Feminine? 

What if there were ways and spaces to allow the fullness, complexity and paradox and uniqueness of you? 

What if your feminine expression wasn’t something that you had to perform or go find, but something that was already arising and continuously existed inside of you? 

What if there were safe and kind spaces where you could explore your body, your pelvis, these essential parts of your being? 

What if you could discover ways of nourishing yourself and connecting to yourself that were easily woven into your daily life and were solely so you could enjoy more of you? 

I know this is a space I deeply crave and need. 

I know that this is the type of space that is rarely found or offered to women. 

I know I have benefitted and been changed and continue to be held by exploring my body, my pelvis, the root of my being and what my authentic expression of the Feminine looks like. 

And I want to offer this space to you too, because there is a powerful thing that happens when we are given the space to come home to ourselves. 

And that the power of this work is multiplied in its  impact when this space and reclaiming is done in a group. When we are allowed to be ourselves and occupy ourselves, while in connection with others. 

So I want to invite you to join me for this experience of: 

Reclaim Your Wild Terrain 

This 6 week series will walk you through practices that support you to be in your body in ways that feel safe, nourishing and authentic to you. 

You’ll be given the opportunity to learn about the unique ways the female body operates and how this impacts our experiences relationally, sexually and how this can be a gateway spiritually. 

We’ll create together a map and web of support for traversing the places inside of our bodies that we disconnect from and have yet to inhabit. 

You’ll be encouraged and held in finding your own personal  and authentic expression of your Feminine nature. 

And much more <3 

Here is some of what we will explore as we traverse the realms of the body, pelvis, s3xuality, relationship with self and other: 

  • Working with the Nervous System 

  • Finding Grounding Ways to Connect with Yourself 

  • How Our Attachment Patterns Impact Our Relationship + Experience of Self

  • Discovering the Inner Terrain of the Pelvis 

  • Self- Massage + Hands on Healing Practices 

  • Cervical De-Armouring + Deep Pelvic Bowl Work

  • Understanding the Feminine Anatomy of Arousal 

  • Ways of Experiencing  Authentic Erotic Expression  

  • What a Non-Goal Oriented Approach to S3x + Pleasure Looks Like 

  • How to Better Work with the Rhythms of the Female Body + Cycle (even if you don’t menstruate) 

  • Healing the Mother Wound + Our Connection to the Feminine 

This series will build upon itself each week to create a foundational sense of safety and connection with yourself to allow for deeper personal work and exploration. 

Whether you’re just beginning your journey or if you’re an experienced practitioner, there will be something deep for you in this course, as we all unfold more deeply when we are held. 


Who is this space for? This space is open to women of all sexual orientations. This container is for cis-women and people who have vulvas given that we will be focused on working with biologically female reproductive and sexual anatomy.  

This will be a trauma informed space, however this work is not therapy and cannot address all individual traumas. Resources and support will be given as is appropriate for the container - if you have questions about if the container is right for you please email: serpentandrosetantra@gmail.com to set up a time to talk more. 

To apply please fill out this form and book an intake call so we can get to know each other more and answer any questions you have about the course: 

Application: https://forms.gle/KspMtjbsnpoC4EVTA

Intake Call: serpentandrose.as.me/somatic

Logistics: 

Wednesdays at  5-7pm PT/7-9pm ET on 7/6, 7/13, 7/20, 7/27, 8/3, 8/10 

All classes will be recorded in case you can’t join us live - however I encourage you to attend the live calls so you can receive 1:1 support and get the most out of this container. 

Exchange: 

$525 early bird pricing available  until 6/21 

$650 full tuition pricing 

If you register with a friend you each receive $50 off your tuition 

Enrollment is open until 7/3 and payment plans are available on a case by case basis 

Scholarship spots are available on a case by case basis with priority going to BIPOC women and mothers. 

Please note this class is a prerequisite to the 3 day, In-Person, Women’s Sexuality Retreat that will take place in August and/or September! Discounts are available for the retreat if you would like to enroll early with the course. 

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Jun
8
5:00 PM17:00

Mapping Your Wild Terrain: a Pelvic Bowl + Vaginal Mapping Workshop for Women + Female Bodied Folks

Mapping Your Wild Terrain is a hands-on and hands-in experiential workshop where you will learn from the inside out a deeper understanding of your physical and sexual anatomy, as well as, tools for reproductive health and deeper self-care.
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You'll be given a space to explore your pelvis just for you! So often our bodies are only touched in the context of medical assesment and for other's pleasure. This workshop is a space for you to have a deep experience of yourself, what lives in the root of your being and to learn tools for reclaiming your body, pelvis and sexuality as a space that is for you and by you!
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We will explore:
- Pelvic Bowl + Vagainal Mapping for an Deeper Connection to Self
- Self- Massage for Reproductive Health + Trauma Healing
- The Anatomy of Arousal in the Female Body
- Pleasure Points for More Sensation
- Reclaiming the Pelvis as a Place of Nourishment + Personal Pleasure
And much more!
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Who is this space for?
This space is open to women of all sexual orientations. This container is for cis-women and people who have vulvas given that we will be focused on working with biologically female reproductive and sexual anatomy.

This will be a trauma informed space, however this work is not therapy and cannot address all individual traumas. Resources and support will be given as is appropriate for the container - if you have questions about if the container is right for you please email: serpentandrosetantra@gmail.com to set up a time to talk more.
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To Register: https://us02web.zoom.us/.../reg.../WN_IVCL7nldTtyjCLU_kJ6isA

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Class Logistics:
We will begin this class with lecture and Q&A and then a large portion of the workshop will be guided solo experience.

We will have plenty of time for integration and questions at the end of the class.

You will need a quiet space where you will be undisturbed for the duration of this workshop.

You will also need lubricant or body oil, a towel, layers, paper+ pen or markers and a handmirror.
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This workshop is also an introduction to some of the foundational practices of the Reclaim Your Wild Terrain course, which is a 6 week online class for women and female-bodied folks that begins July 7th. Participants in this workshop will also qualify for a discount on the Reclaim Your Wild Terrain course. You can read more about the course here: https://fb.me/e/1KgasJk2X
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For questions please reach out to: serpentandrosetantra@gmail.com

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